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	<title>Comments on: On Being Selfish in Japan</title>
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	<description>A New England Expat in Japan.</description>
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		<title>By: On Driving a Train Off the Rails in Japan &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-3538</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[On Driving a Train Off the Rails in Japan &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Sep 2013 14:52:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[&#8230;] it prone to abuses by well-meaning authoritarians. When you get the idea in your head that you must teach someone how to endure the unendurable, you actually start subjecting them to unendurable situations. Couple this with rigid hierarchies [&#8230;]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] it prone to abuses by well-meaning authoritarians. When you get the idea in your head that you must teach someone how to endure the unendurable, you actually start subjecting them to unendurable situations. Couple this with rigid hierarchies [&#8230;]</p>
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		<title>By: Sophung</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-3398</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Sophung]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Aug 2013 21:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A very interesting read! Reading this article makes me wonder how things could be different here in Brazil if we had at least 10% of the discipline of the japanese...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A very interesting read! Reading this article makes me wonder how things could be different here in Brazil if we had at least 10% of the discipline of the japanese&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Archana</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-2696</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Archana]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2013 13:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think most of the Japanese ways worked in my favour. One thing didn&#039;t and it bugged me the whole time i was there.

McDonalds is disgusting everywhere else but in Japan - I don&#039;t know why but McDonalds in Japan is really tasty. My husband missed American food sometimes and so every month, we would have some burgers and fries, milkshake and coke. Neither of us would ever think of eating fast food in America and we miss the food in Japan A LOT!

Anyway, none of the McDonalds locations would sell extra pickles on the burgers. You could have a burger without something, but you couldn&#039;t have extra of anything. Even if you paid extra and insisted on paying a lot more for it. 

And when we had pancakes for breakfast once or twice - they had meals already planned and you couldnt substitute something for something else. 

It&#039;s a small thing but it became very annoying.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think most of the Japanese ways worked in my favour. One thing didn&#8217;t and it bugged me the whole time i was there.</p>
<p>McDonalds is disgusting everywhere else but in Japan &#8211; I don&#8217;t know why but McDonalds in Japan is really tasty. My husband missed American food sometimes and so every month, we would have some burgers and fries, milkshake and coke. Neither of us would ever think of eating fast food in America and we miss the food in Japan A LOT!</p>
<p>Anyway, none of the McDonalds locations would sell extra pickles on the burgers. You could have a burger without something, but you couldn&#8217;t have extra of anything. Even if you paid extra and insisted on paying a lot more for it. </p>
<p>And when we had pancakes for breakfast once or twice &#8211; they had meals already planned and you couldnt substitute something for something else. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s a small thing but it became very annoying.</p>
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		<title>By: On Praying to a Fox in Japan &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-2418</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[On Praying to a Fox in Japan &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Mar 2013 13:16:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] toiling in an office to grow economies. Always working! And it is why it is so easy to be called selfish here. All you have to do is not always be [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: On Wacky Japan (or: On Pretending to Have Fun in Japan) &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-1709</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[On Wacky Japan (or: On Pretending to Have Fun in Japan) &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2012 14:05:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] we look out for ourselves first, then we will find our rightful place in the world. In Japan, you find your rightful place, and then bring your inner self into alignment with [...]]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] we look out for ourselves first, then we will find our rightful place in the world. In Japan, you find your rightful place, and then bring your inner self into alignment with [...]</p>
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		<title>By: On Going to a Gay Bar in Japan &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-1137</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[On Going to a Gay Bar in Japan &#124; This Japanese Life. &#124; 生命を外面九天です]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Feb 2012 12:39:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[[...] a foreigner in Japan once accused of acting “selfishly” for essentially trivial reasons, the hammering down is an intense and debilitating process. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Amanda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 01:16:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;It’s inspired by nature: Discipline in Japan comes with the force of a typhoon. Tsunamis have no regrets. Life is brutal, and that brutality keeps people in line by reminding them that they have to work together or everyone dies. If the kids forget this, teachers remind them by simulating a catastrophe.&quot;

That&#039;s a new one I haven&#039;t heard before. Lately I&#039;ve been thinking about what appears to my Western brain to be the restrictive orderliness of Japanese culture. I recently wrote about the expectation that Japanese women quit work after marriage, whether they want to or not, so as not to disrupt the company with their pregnancies.  It&#039;s unfathomable in Canada, and yet here you have it. 

Of course, your and my bias will be towards the way things are done in Canada. And we may point to things like high suicide rates and AKB48 as proof things are not working out so well for Japan with their &quot;backwards thinking&quot;, and yet us Westerners aren&#039;t exactly in a position to tell people how to build a utopia. 

Bah, just my two cents.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;It’s inspired by nature: Discipline in Japan comes with the force of a typhoon. Tsunamis have no regrets. Life is brutal, and that brutality keeps people in line by reminding them that they have to work together or everyone dies. If the kids forget this, teachers remind them by simulating a catastrophe.&#8221;</p>
<p>That&#8217;s a new one I haven&#8217;t heard before. Lately I&#8217;ve been thinking about what appears to my Western brain to be the restrictive orderliness of Japanese culture. I recently wrote about the expectation that Japanese women quit work after marriage, whether they want to or not, so as not to disrupt the company with their pregnancies.  It&#8217;s unfathomable in Canada, and yet here you have it. </p>
<p>Of course, your and my bias will be towards the way things are done in Canada. And we may point to things like high suicide rates and AKB48 as proof things are not working out so well for Japan with their &#8220;backwards thinking&#8221;, and yet us Westerners aren&#8217;t exactly in a position to tell people how to build a utopia. </p>
<p>Bah, just my two cents.</p>
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		<title>By: superhappyawesome</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 12:53:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Though this story was about a fictional keytar, I mentally replaced it with the brilliant keyboard/recorder combo that&#039;s popular with the elementary schools around here. The city festival has a parade full of the plastic beauties!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Though this story was about a fictional keytar, I mentally replaced it with the brilliant keyboard/recorder combo that&#8217;s popular with the elementary schools around here. The city festival has a parade full of the plastic beauties!</p>
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		<title>By: Pete Able</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-982</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pete Able]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 16:54:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Nice post - you&#039;re a clever writer.  And your views (and do I detect a hint of frustration?) on the Japanese school system seems to be right in line with my own.  I see the same kind of stuff at Junior High School and even Elementary School and it frustrates me to no end - you seem to let it roll off your back better than I do.  Anyway, I&#039;m gonna add your blog to my blog reel, and I&#039;d appreciate it if you could return the favor.  Thanks.  Have a good time in China]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice post &#8211; you&#8217;re a clever writer.  And your views (and do I detect a hint of frustration?) on the Japanese school system seems to be right in line with my own.  I see the same kind of stuff at Junior High School and even Elementary School and it frustrates me to no end &#8211; you seem to let it roll off your back better than I do.  Anyway, I&#8217;m gonna add your blog to my blog reel, and I&#8217;d appreciate it if you could return the favor.  Thanks.  Have a good time in China</p>
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		<title>By: Miguel</title>
		<link>http://thisjapaneselife.org/2011/12/07/japanese-selfish-america/#comment-927</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Miguel]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 01:16:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Good post. Iam from Spain and I&#039;m totally agree with your comments. I am married with a Japanese woman since 7 years ago, and came to Japan 2 years ago. Japan is very easy to be idealized, but life here differs so much from the Japan Utopia that people perceives from the outside. Sometimes is kind of frustrating to try to understand all the weird things.
Congratulations for your blog, i think it is quite good.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Good post. Iam from Spain and I&#8217;m totally agree with your comments. I am married with a Japanese woman since 7 years ago, and came to Japan 2 years ago. Japan is very easy to be idealized, but life here differs so much from the Japan Utopia that people perceives from the outside. Sometimes is kind of frustrating to try to understand all the weird things.<br />
Congratulations for your blog, i think it is quite good.</p>
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